Focusing on ills is supported enormously by many over-powered thoughts, neglecting the 'good' ones. At one point or the other, one of us faces the 'dilemma'. In such cases, it becomes a pre-requisite to make a choice. An energy field is created. Who creates it? The Mind. What does the Mind need and what does it attract? I hope everybody knows the answer of the above question.
Its easy to ride in a zone of negativity, attracting more thoughts of the same but real hard when the sign changes from - to +. We certainly make a choice which is great for external peace but somehow it might so happen that we may put the internal peace at stake. We cry due to reasons, of people not being faithful, of our own selves not accomplishing certain tasks, of time crunch, of relatives being too pesky, of relationships being weird and many more things.
Also, choices vary with variation. What one feels is correct for him/her might not be for the other person. A food habit which one loves may be detested by the other. A person might love to talk about one's miseries and bitch about others while the same not being appreciated by another. Its a vicious circle of life. People may like you, might not! Do not get swayed by the opinions of others.
So, way out? The answer lies within YOU. You have a choice. You matter! (Yes, you occupy space and have mass :p ). You should be you, irrespective of what people think of you. You should be YOU and never change for the likes of others. You should also not change people and respect the individuality one owes.
You owe yourself more than to others. YOU are responsible for your own actions.
Its upto you!
To be spirited with joy and brightness or be de-spirited as a lamp with no fuel. :')
