Degluttifying realizations

Sometimes, all we need is to SWALLOW some of our thoughts!

A turmoil within has a say,

Do not always do what you may,

Lest you will become fray.

Occupied by many thoughts,

Comes a sense of drought. 

That continues to feed the evil, 

Feeling its hard retrieval.

A sudden phase upheaval,

Causing mind swivel, 

Accompanying some shivers, 

Gushes emotions into rivers.

Mistakes are defended by reasons, 

Continuing the same for seasons.

Leading to mood swings,

And the brain giving bombardings .

With age, increases complexity,

Amongst peers, disparity.

Leading to stress,

Succumbing goodwill to arrest,

Haulting life's zest.

But as one grows,
Facing downs and lows,
Should notice the nature!
What it bestows. With different shades of rose.
So, rather than cribbing the woes,

Shine and go with a steady flow!!

The lady who doesn't get her due.

5:30 without the alarm,

Wakes a lady of charm.

Regardless of her health

Keeping her tiredness at stealth.

That's how my mother is. And without doubt, all the mothers on Earth will be.

Today's morning witnessed me having a little strife with my God. My bad! The remorse was sensed later. Not just from my side but from her side too. It made me reflect my temporal mood swings which makes my absconding nerves to react 'evil' way. A daughter can never love back as her mother does .

She's the lady who doesn't get her due. 

And she never complains. Its her compassion and tensile strength that keeps our family knitted together. She always keeps her passions aside and joyously merges in the happiness of her children. Mothers complete our lives. Being the integral factor in our life, a house is called home because of her. 

In the super busy times like ours, we fail to acknowledge our mothers who have been there with us - for us since day 1. Be it on a sweet dish or about that yummy cold coffee she made, go ahead to thank her. It will make her day brighten 2 folds. She doesn't want much but a little appreciation.

The Allegation

Alleging someone of consequences that wasn't the outcome of his/her doings! 

Yes, easy enough. But tolerable by the alleged person? That depends on the stride in which one takes it and also the extent to which the person abased. The root cause, if analysed, happens to be the frustrations which one carries that renders a person to do such foolish acts. Yes, I would rather call it 'Being foolish' than to let the misery rot my Mind. Agreed that it hits one hard in the beginning (similar to that of a B-cell on an antigenic challenge) but its wiser to neglect some things. What difference would be left if the innocent 'accused' person retaliate back in violence? And make the situation more complex, which was started by some idiotic thought process of a lunatic.  

Staying quiet helps. Sometimes, and most of the times, throwing  frustrations is the choice people make as it soothes them for some while. Your boss screws you?  Your classmate/colleague pisses you off? Your relative is real annoying? My friend! Its a vicious circle of life which happens with each of us at certain stages of life. Screaming or bashing seems an obvious approach but 'letting go things' isn't difficult. There's no point in stressing over something you can't change. Move on and grow strong! 

Try the approach not taken. Stay silent! DO NOT let a 'mere' anybody affect you.  

Smile! And make the others wonder what you're upto. 

WEBBED >:@

Okay. My internet connection was down past 3 days. I guess, it too got infected with the scorching heat! Grr. What a connection! It undergoes such symptoms of mal-operation every now and then; just like weather fluctuations. Sometimes making one happy contrary to times of boredom, leading to frustration and those crappy mood swings. As it is, no one remembers his/her good times and gets swayed back to the 'bad' times, I'm forced to emphasize on the latter part. 

With such high temperatures, which are day by day hitting new records in the newspapers, one must avoid going out during the hotter time of the day. The rescue? Yup, you're right. Its the internet which comes to rescue in such times. One can have a talk with friends,  relatives and dear ones via our popular entertainment sources viz Facebook, Whatsapp, Twitter, Google+.. and also can surf through the huge database of information provided by the World Wide Web. 

But the feeling is not at all nice when your network dwindles and you suddenly feel deserted. You think that you cannot do anything with that lappy, iPad, mobile, pc or whatever has been caught in the webs of a network failure. The same happened with me as well. We people never realize that feeling of having 'nothing to do' has actually the 'important things to do' buried in latent forms.

While when that icon right on the upper/lower right of your phone's or laptop's screen shows the signs of connection, one doesn't bother about the latent forms of things. What one is bothered about is pertaining with the stupid online day to day stuffs. And not so surprisingly, one tends to afford those precious hours, which could have been utilized fruitfully. It comes with- of course- the later guilt of wasting time and not completing one's dues/assignments or not spending time with family or having those strained eyes.

Have a thought about it! Switch off that data connection from your phone or that WiFi which is plugged in 24x7. And see and try to find out the latent emergents. 

Smiles. Peace. :)

The Cribbing Business

Cribbing- an event to which any and every person would have been exposed to at some point of time. Such practice is a healthy one as long as it doesn't corrupt one's mind and turn it into an 'anionic' (negatively charged) piece of mass. Suffice to say, its an anxiety buster and gives  momentary relief but over-cribbing can lead to a void of positive benefactors in oneself.

Okay. We justify everything we do, with a solid reason so as to impress the person listening our woes. 

Mere REASONS!!! 

And it occurs to us, that it becomes a necessity to portray our own 'view' to get placed on that high Elm. We are never bothered to listen other's point of view and proceed with the 'process', when we are in that 'excited' level of furiousness. Wisdom tells us that one should listen to everybody peacefully and neither decide nor declare about the consequences before hand. Because what we think and assume is not always true. Whether its a petty fight or a big one or ego clashes; with your parents or friend(s) or spouse, one should keep calm and not blurt out something which might lead to severing of relations. 

My professor enlightened me today in class that we need to re-programme our discriminatory NEURONS and stop discriminating between different beings(things) in conventional ways. As two individuals can never be the same, the judging criteria or rather the cribbing criteria pertaining to a particular person, can never be similar. 

 Before cribbing, we should take a minute's time and think about the people in suffering. They never complain about their miseries so much; but lead their life peacefully with great determination. Think about it! 

Retrospect is what we should. Its rather easy saying than doing but if we really abide by the formula of 'retrospection', we'll lead a good life with positive vibes surrounding us.

YES! All my friends out there, BLOGGING is the way out :)

Travelling, adaptation and the correct tuning

Travelling in the early hours is such a peaceful journey. There is no traffic leading you to a quick destination attainment(even if you happen to leave late, you still wont get late :P).The Beauty of Nature at dawn - chirping of birds, the 'mild' sun rays and fresh mind. 
Yes,  it's something we tend to miss in the hustle-bustle of our commotional life.

(All the pictures were clicked in and around metro station. Try this at your own expense 'cause photography is not allowed in metro.)

Contrary to the evening's time, where everybody is rushing back home. Just like the to-and-fro motion of a pendulum. To relax and spend some time with their loved ones. Our heart yearns for our little nest- "home sweet home",where the ultimate relaxation lies. 

I travel like 2 hours (one side) from home to college and vice-versa, but I still prefer coming back to my home. Although it becomes hell tiring sometimes, but I have adapted to this route. Adaptation can be interlinked to nature: "Survival of the fittest" - only those life forms will be able to sustain changes in life which can adapt themselves as per the surroundings. 

 Adaptation is what makes life going and somewhere , at some point of time, it does make you learn so many lessons, which remain unlearned and buried.

 Also, adaptation can be w.r.t social behaviour, which makes you learn that there are many personalities with different behaviours on our Earth and we should try to remain at peace even if some of them do bother us. We might feel infuriated seeing some 'weird' personalities, who are like lemons to our eyes but being anxious is not the way out. As it is, we do not have a remote control over the others as we can do with our television sets. 

A wiser choice WOULD be to keep tuning oneself according to the condition(person) since its under one's control. 

Keep tuning :D 
and live a peaceful life.

Life, Dreams, Goals

 Having started this blog, I would like to present a poem which I wrote a little time back. It's "the turmoil within" which we need to conquer!

LiFe, DreAms, GoaLs

Why is it?

What we want

We don’t get!

And then we fret.

All sorts of dreams are on a ride,

That we look out to thrive.

But, law of NATURE – Not everybody survives! 

What's the reason behind?

Try to make your thoughts grind.

Nature doesn’t take bribe.

Everything we want to chase,

Puts us in a maze. 

Where we are puppets of a race,

So much so; some win, some lose.

Some get chilies, some chocolate mousse.

With their paths set, some get on track.

Contrary to those thrashed with no trace.

And after all, this is what happens!

But we should always be in craze,

To fair exceptionally well in that match,

Where 1 move check mate’s opponent’s king;

As a baby bird develop its wing.

  

Notice where the difference lies!

Concentrate!!! Not on cries.
But in an environment of peace,
With those bright “Fireflies”.
Where you can be “YOU”
Throw the ills as you ‘may’

Outta your way!!