Do Not Look Back, Go Ahead

Each one of us would have faced missed opportunities.

Some move forward learning from their mistakes while some get like stagnant water: No movement, No aroma, No hopes. The latter ones do not realize the inert force within themselves which can make anything and everything possible. Force is required for making things get back to motion. How can a person reach a room if he/she doesn't open the door! Whats responsible for attainment of one's destination? 

Its the Power of Thoughts. 

A pessimist would start thinking: "I wont be able to cross the door", "What if the door is locked?" "Perhaps that door wont fetch me happiness!" If you start to think about future which is uncertain; Think about the ones which boost you! Not those which make you trapped and feel suffocated. Thinking negative would make you lose things you didn't even try.

And failed attempts are fine but untried attempts are the worst! 

Not trying because of lack of confidence, low in self-capabilities and sans motivation. One might think we are right and justify our actions with enumerable explanations. But those are mere reasons. One should never lose faith on one's self worth. You must have read/heard stories of many personalities; who didn't even attend school and discovered phenomena which the learned couldn't; who had no facilities but still managed educating themselves and securing highest posts in various fields. Had they lost patience and ceased to move then, they wouldn't have tasted the sweetness of success. They kept their confidence intact filled with motivation to move ahead. 

One should constantly move ahead. It doesn't matter if its just an inch away from your previous position. As taught in kindergarten, Slow and Steady wins the race. One should not be afraid of one's slow- paced-life. Not every person can move with the same pace and we should respect it by not comparing it with each other. Every person is destined to reach his/her destination irrespective of the time. 

Be receptive to new thoughts.

Keep moving!!

Finding Solace

A girl knocked the door in excitement to visit the lady she admired a lot. Two people sat in the room, a Sir sitting right in front of the table and the professor, seated opposite to him. She greeted the sir first following which came a voice:

"Welcome dear, I know its you. I remember your voice."

The excitement the girl had for meeting her professor after 3 years was reciprocated. The professor assimilated the how abouts of the girl's life and discussed her perspectives too, like a mother-cum-friend. She was mesmerized by the amount of faith the professor showed in her. 

The girl, once a  happy person, had started raising intermittent  gloominess inside. The environment around had disturbed her to a great extent. Perhaps that's how many of us react, when faced with complexities in life. We always think down upon ourselves when our expectations don't get fulfilled. We wish our lives to be smooth with no breaks of failure or discontent towards work/people. But is it supported by laws of Universe? No! Science supports entropy i.e. increase in randomness. 

Any well established work goes through the process of randomness, later leading to stabilization. Similarly, if you are bogged down by the perplexities of your life, hold back and realize that phases change. Nothing is constant and it will get changed only if you have patience and self belief.

In the story above, the girl found solace in her professor, who motivated her by showing confidence in her capabilities and that testing times come and go. Its how you chose to react to them: Letting it deteriorate you or Hitting it back with a greater force. The girl was realized of her true potential and to believe in herself. 

A meeting can do wonders. You never know the meeting turns out to be a blessing in-disguise. Meet people who can see and bring out the best in You. 

Be receptive to the good things/ thoughts in life. Ignore things which disrupt your peace. Acknowledge downfalls, if any or many, in your way and be high on self worth!

Venting the right way

One time or the other, many of us would have faced misunderstandings leading to ugly strife. It could be with elders, superior at office, pesky colleague, friends or spouse; on telephone, social networking apps or in person! There's no dearth of the variety of thoughts which one is faced in varied situations.

The human mind is vast. The multitude of thoughts it caters is so high that its not possible to have similar thoughts with different people. What to do when faced with a clash of opinions/ideas? Shooting a highly exasperated response doesn't rescue you from the situation. It rather drags your mind away from peace. It looks like an easier alternative from a blunt moment but can be avoided. Yes, surely it can. How?!?!

Wait and focus on your breathing pattern. Meanwhile, instill your thoughts and think about the consequence of delivering it (in your mind). Is it required? Will things change for good upon uttering some differing words? If it will change things for good, go ahead. But if its otherwise, halt yourself and protect the situation! Were you able to digest it? When you cannot digest the words you are about to speak, can the opposite person do likewise? 

Thinking "I am right, He/She is a fool who is not understanding my thing" is being prudent. You cannot be right always! Similarly, dont undermine yourself. If you really think what you say will be beneficial, say it with patience. Having different thoughts isn't a bad thing at all. Its how you face it and modulate your speaking. 

If you want your thought to be implemented, adopt 'Being patient' approach and putforth your ideas in a friendly tone rather than being an anger laden creeper. Saying things loudly doesn't help. Its the pitch of your thoughts complexed with a pinch of good attitude which will get you through a directionless conversation.

Everybody has an anger aspect but the difference lies on how one deals with it and explains the other party with a different approach to the situation. 

Be receptive to others and most importantly,  

Listen quietly and react with worthy reasoning!