Drowning in the ocean of Thoughts

I will rise at 7am. I will reach college/office before time. I will binge less (during festivities). I will stray away negatives. Most of us think alot about our chores and end up disappointing self. How?

By drowning in the ocean of our very own thoughts!!

We expect too much from ourselves and when the same is not fulfilled, the mind has to pay for the sins. The mind is a very powerful tool any Homo sapiens has. 

Its the reason to make people afloat in the extremest of situations yet drown even in the simplest of ones. Its the path for a Happy Soulful living and also a bitter-guilt laiden one. It can make magic in the black and at times, make black magic. It depends on us how we mould our thoughts when uncertainities do strike us in reality. Dont scruple and retreat! Keep your cool and move ahead with the possible and the next best step.

You have the SECRET within You which can help You in upbringing the laziness-repressed passion, attaining happiness, JOY and most importantly peace. 

Breathe in freshness, good vibes and calmness and breathe out laziness, negative vibes and ofcourse carbon dioxide. Dont let anything, including your thoughts, intoxicate you!

Willingness beyond odds!

Ever had thoughts of willingness? Of circumventing odds i.e. making it happen irrespective of the situations happening around? Was it followed by the attainment of your respective thought? 

If it has, splendid! If it didn't, you cannot consider those thoughts to be of utmost importance and desires; and there is a dire need of speculating yourself! 

Nature maintains somewhat perfect balance (not really perfect due to humanly disturbances) in the form of a well-knit food web. It comprises of many food chains in the different ecosystems.

For a look-in, lets consider a deer. It grazes the ground to feed itself and has to share the food with its contemporaries. Thus, to maintain its health and its future generations, the deer has to have thoughts of willingness of moving out to other far places from its residential area. If it fails to do, it will succumb itself to death.

Similarly, we have to decide and go ahead with a 'will' that helps us to survive positively (not really a matter of death in this case). If YOU have a WILL, you would certainly do it. But whats the pre-requisite? A belief in yourself to complete certain task without considering the ills and effects. Most of us fall in a trap of REASONS. Yes, we succumb to mere reasons. We always have a reason for a thing which didn't go well, or perhaps failed to happen. Why? To name a few, it may be due to temperature, people or self. We forget the powers we have within, which can make us going irrespective of any other pulling force. Howsoever strong be THE pulling force but it cannot outweigh the powers each one of us owns - Of willingness, goodwill and happiness.

Chuck out Reasons from your dictionary and adapt to the power of WILL. 

You can. You will. By your will! :')

A matter of choice!

Focusing on ills is supported enormously by many over-powered thoughts, neglecting the 'good' ones. At one point or the other, one of us faces the 'dilemma'. In such cases, it becomes a pre-requisite to make a choice.  An energy field is created. Who creates it? The Mind. What does the Mind need and what does it attract? I hope everybody knows the answer of the above question. 

Its easy to ride in a zone of negativity, attracting more thoughts of the same but real hard when the sign changes from - to +. We certainly make a choice which is great for external peace but somehow it might so happen that we may put the internal peace at stake. We cry due to reasons, of people not being faithful, of our own selves not accomplishing certain tasks, of time crunch, of relatives being too pesky, of relationships being weird and many more things. 

Also, choices vary with variation. What one feels is correct for him/her might not be for the other person. A food habit which one loves may be detested by the other. A person might love to talk about one's miseries and bitch about others while the same not being appreciated by another. Its a vicious circle of life. People may like you, might not! Do not get swayed by the opinions of others.

So, way out? The answer lies within YOU. You have a choice. You matter! (Yes, you occupy space and have mass :p ). You should be you, irrespective of what people think of you. You should be YOU and never change for the likes of others. You should also not change people and respect the individuality one owes. 

You owe yourself more than to others. YOU are responsible for your own actions.

Its upto you! 

To be spirited with joy and brightness or be de-spirited as a lamp with no fuel. :')

Focus on + thoughts for × happiness

People being engrossed in their personal/professional stuffs, always have a place for negativity to creep in, in howsoever minute amounts. This lead to an accumulation of over-exaggerated negative thoughts over a period of time. 
Thoughts are similar to clay, these can be molded by our powerful brain. We focus on things we should not and overlook things that really matter. We focus on what a person did wrong to us more than a friend who always seeks our happiness and confronts his/her sadness because of us. 
We should try to portray each situation as a testing phase rather than criticizing about it. This creates a disturbance in the peaceful environment of your brain, leading to a restless attitude towards everyone and anyone. 

Keep good thoughts about people and self; and dump those irrelevant tortures aside because ultimately, its Your inner self which gets damaged and makes you react and behave in unusual ways.

Its upto us how we choose to react back. Take deep breaths whenever you feel you are succumbing to your thoughts. Get out of it ! After all, Life with the mankind aint that bad! 

Cheers!!!

Change is constant!

Being pampered by DMRC during my three years of graduation, I have had a phase mixed of sweet-sour moments. Now that I no longer travel via metro routinely, it struck me how a 'CHANGE' makes you change. It was the place where I solemnly used to underlay my feelings digitally. I never have penned down my blogs. Its always on phone!




Getting back to the CHANGE, the people in enormously high numbers move to-fro Delhi NCR, being busy in their activities: a gang of youngsters laughing on each other, professionals busy in their laptops, little kids swinging, people clueless about Metro travels roaming here and there, couples cozying up in some less populated areas etc. Different sets of beings travelling for a different purpose, wanting to reach a different destination. A bunch of  people come out from the metro followed by the refilling with another bunch.


Similarly, a change is inevitable in life! Like flights have timings, a red traffic light is followed by a green one; life changes for you to experience new things. Embrace the 'change' which occurs because monotony leads to a mongering mind making one stressful. 

Always be patient about new things. If you think they aren't going by your will, hold and let go; eventually it will lead You to your desired target. Remember, not all 'changes' can be accepted in a go.
Accept changes as they are and appreciate them!

Degluttifying realizations

Sometimes, all we need is to SWALLOW some of our thoughts!

A turmoil within has a say,

Do not always do what you may,

Lest you will become fray.

Occupied by many thoughts,

Comes a sense of drought. 

That continues to feed the evil, 

Feeling its hard retrieval.

A sudden phase upheaval,

Causing mind swivel, 

Accompanying some shivers, 

Gushes emotions into rivers.

Mistakes are defended by reasons, 

Continuing the same for seasons.

Leading to mood swings,

And the brain giving bombardings .

With age, increases complexity,

Amongst peers, disparity.

Leading to stress,

Succumbing goodwill to arrest,

Haulting life's zest.

But as one grows,
Facing downs and lows,
Should notice the nature!
What it bestows. With different shades of rose.
So, rather than cribbing the woes,

Shine and go with a steady flow!!

The lady who doesn't get her due.

5:30 without the alarm,

Wakes a lady of charm.

Regardless of her health

Keeping her tiredness at stealth.

That's how my mother is. And without doubt, all the mothers on Earth will be.

Today's morning witnessed me having a little strife with my God. My bad! The remorse was sensed later. Not just from my side but from her side too. It made me reflect my temporal mood swings which makes my absconding nerves to react 'evil' way. A daughter can never love back as her mother does .

She's the lady who doesn't get her due. 

And she never complains. Its her compassion and tensile strength that keeps our family knitted together. She always keeps her passions aside and joyously merges in the happiness of her children. Mothers complete our lives. Being the integral factor in our life, a house is called home because of her. 

In the super busy times like ours, we fail to acknowledge our mothers who have been there with us - for us since day 1. Be it on a sweet dish or about that yummy cold coffee she made, go ahead to thank her. It will make her day brighten 2 folds. She doesn't want much but a little appreciation.